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What do my clients want?
More free time. More connection with those they love. More trust in themselves and in the universe. But here’s what’s interesting. When I talk to clients about welcoming more into their lives, sometimes, something in them tenses. They tell themselves: “I don’t need more.” “I don’t want more.” And I get it. When you’re already holding so much—work, family, responsibilities—the idea of adding more can feel like pressure instead of possibility. Why “More” Has a Bad Rap I once asked a client if she wanted to ask for a raise. She immediately said no. When I asked her why, she told me more money would mean more responsibility. But when I asked, “What if that’s not true?” she paused. What if she was already undercharging for what she did? What if she wasn’t fully seeing the value she already brought to the table? Her brain was trying to keep her safe. But staying “safe” meant staying small, staying tired, and settling. She wasn't seeing the value she already brings to the table. Asking for a raise wouldn’t have meant doing more. It might have actually created more of what she wanted: more peace, more spaciousness, more freedom to focus on what really matters. We Cut Ourselves Off from “More” Isn’t it funny how we sometimes cut ourselves off from more with the stories we tell ourselves? We say we don’t want more when what we really mean is, “I don’t want more pressure.” But wanting more isn’t the problem. It’s how we go about getting it that matters. What “More” Really Means in My Work Many of my clients want more free time, more connection, more trust—in themselves, their work, and life itself. That’s what we cultivate inside Level Up Mastermind. Leveling up doesn’t mean adding more tasks or hours. It means cultivating the ability to do less with more clarity, confidence, and high quality thinking. It means leading your life from trust instead of tension. Because aligned action is always more powerful than over-actioning from scarcity. Final Reflection So if you find yourself saying, “I don’t need more” or “I don’t want more,” ask yourself, “What if that’s not true?” What if more could actually feel like relief? Interested in learning how to create that kind of ease in your own life? Explore how we practice it inside Level Up Mastermind — a one-year coaching experience for leaders, responsibility-carriers, and change-makers who want to live, lead, and create with more clarity, calm, and connection. Would you like to chat before you join? If you’re curious about Level Up Mastermind but want to explore how it can serve you personally, let’s talk. A free coaching consult is a no pressure space to connect, ask questions, and find clarity about your next step.
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Today I honor Indigenous Peoples’ Day as an invitation to return to sovereignty.
To me, sovereignty is not only political. It is personal. It is the remembrance that we each carry the spirit of creation within us — that our intuition, our connection to Earth, and our inner knowing are sacred technologies that were never meant to be forgotten or outsourced. For many of us walking the path of healing and coherence, this remembrance is both ancient and urgent. It calls us to slow down, listen, and move through our world in right relationship with all things. It asks us to free ourselves from systems that reward disconnection, domination, and survival mode, and to instead embody the wisdom that everything we touch is alive, responsive, and worthy of respect. When I speak about coherence, I am speaking about this same remembrance. The coherence of the nervous system mirrors the coherence of community. The healing of one being contributes to the healing of the whole. When we become steady, when we live from our heart and spirit, we create ripples of balance that move outward — touching families, teams, ecosystems, and generations. Indigenous Peoples’ Day is not only a remembrance of history but a practice of returning to the sacred truth that sovereignty begins within. It begins when we trust the quiet voice that says we belong, that we can stand in our own power without needing to dominate another, that liberation for one contributes to liberation for all. As a coach, healer, and Indigenous business owner, I witness daily how remembering our sovereignty changes lives. When people reconnect to the spirit within all things, they move from survival to creation, from exhaustion to embodiment, from fear to possibility. They become medicine for their communities simply by being in coherence. Today, I honor the Indigenous peoples who have never forgotten this truth. I honor the ancestors who held fast to the ways of connection and reciprocity even when the world forgot. And I honor all who are remembering now — those who are returning to the land, to their bodies, to their truth, and to the spirit that breathes through every living thing. If you feel called to celebrate this day through action, I invite you to support Indigenous-led organizations, artists, and healers in your own community. I also invite you to consider that when you support my work, you are already supporting an Indigenous-led organization dedicated to collective coherence, healing, and liberation. May this day remind us that sovereignty is not separation. It is the deep remembering that we were never disconnected to begin with. What would a year of consistent support help you become?
Most people try to level up by working harder, reading another book, or adding another task to the to-do list. But transformation doesn’t come from more effort; it comes from more coherence. If you’ve been carrying the weight of your work, relationships, or community for years, chances are you don’t need more motivation. You need a regulated nervous system, consistent reflection, and a circle of people who are committed to your evolution. That is what Level Up Mastermind was built for. The Hidden Cost of Doing It Alone High performers and helpers often pride themselves on independence. You know how to handle things. You know how to push through. But doing everything alone comes with a cost: exhaustion, self-doubt, and the constant feeling that you should be further along by now. In reality, no one sustains success without consistent support. When you only rely on self-discipline, you create results through pressure. When you build support and coherence, you create results through alignment. That difference is what turns survival into sustainable success. The Power of Being Witnessed Group coaching is not just about accountability. It is about being seen, not for your performance but for your process. Inside Level Up Mastermind, you will be surrounded by other responsibility-carriers: queer folks, BIPOC, and allies who are leading, healing, and building in their own lives. It is a space where people understand the nuance of showing up for everyone else while learning to show up for themselves. For many, this is the first time they have experienced what it feels like to belong without performing. That experience alone can change the trajectory of your confidence, your work, and your relationships. What Makes Level Up Mastermind Different This is not a quick-fix program or another motivational group. It is a trauma-informed, year-long coaching container designed to help you shift from reaction to regulation and from survival to coherence through consistent practice and support. Here is what is included in your one-year membership:
Real Transformations That Last Clients consistently describe this mastermind as life-changing. They report:
The Vulnerability That Creates Freedom Many people hesitate to join group coaching because it feels vulnerable to be seen while you are still figuring things out. But that is exactly where your power grows. When you allow yourself to be witnessed in your breakthroughs, your questions, and your growth, you accelerate your transformation. You learn that being vulnerable does not mean being weak; it means being willing. The space inside Level Up Mastermind is designed to hold that willingness with integrity and care. Every session is trauma-informed, grounded in coherence practices, and guided by the belief that you are already whole and becoming more of who you are meant to be. The Year That Changes EverythingWhat would a year of consistent support help you become? Imagine where you could be twelve months from now if you stopped trying to do it alone. Imagine having a space to recalibrate your thoughts, regulate your nervous system, and take bold aligned action week after week. That is what Level Up Mastermind offers: a chance to fully live and lead from freedom, not fear. You are invited to join us. Join the Level Up Mastermind or book a free consult to explore what is possible for you. In a world that rewards productivity over presence, many of us have forgotten what it feels like to be regulated, connected, and at peace. We push through exhaustion, silence our needs, and call it strength. But what if the real power comes not from doing more, but from returning to coherence?
The Turning Point There was a time when I, too, lived in survival mode. I managed responsibilities, carried others, and lost myself in the noise. It was not until my own body began sending unmistakable messages of burnout that I realized something profound: the nervous system is not the enemy; it is the gateway. This realization led me to years of studying, integrating, and teaching practices that bridge the nervous system, the mind, and the energy field. These are not separate systems but one intelligent, responsive ecosystem. The Birth of Stop. Drop. Create Coherence™ Out of that exploration came my signature framework: Stop. Drop. Create Coherence™. It is a simple yet powerful method for interrupting survival patterns and returning to the body’s innate state of regulation. Stop – Notice what is happening in your system before reacting. Drop – Release the mental spin and anchor into your body. Create Coherence – Use intentional breath, visualization, or energy-based techniques to bring your mind, heart, and nervous system back into harmony. What began as a personal practice evolved into a professional movement that now supports executives, community leaders, creatives, and healers in showing up with more clarity, capacity, and courage. The Mission Behind the Work At Shaman Tai Ma LLC, coherence is not just a concept; it is a way of being. It is the foundation for trauma-informed coaching, organizational wellness programs, and leadership alignment trainings that help responsibility-carriers thrive without burning out. Our mission is simple: To help people and organizations move from survival to coherence, from reactivity to response-ability, so they can lead with purpose, presence, and sustainable impact. Who We Serve We work with leaders, teams, and individuals who care deeply, often too deeply for their own nervous systems. From animal welfare organizations to queer entrepreneurs, from healthcare professionals to creative change-makers, the common thread is this: each person is ready to restore their capacity, reclaim their power, and lead from coherence. The Ripple Effect When one person creates coherence, it is not just personal; it is collective. A coherent leader regulates a team. A coherent parent regulates a home. A coherent organization transforms culture. This is more than self-care. It is social change, starting from within. Join the Movement For those beginning their coherence journey, the Stop. Drop. Create Coherence™ Cohort offers the perfect entry point. This four-week virtual group experience introduces the foundational practices of coherence through guided somatic, mindfulness, and breathwork tools. Participants learn to regulate stress, reconnect with purpose, and cultivate sustainable calm in community. The Cohort is designed for anyone ready to move from survival to stability, and from chaos to clarity. It is a gentle yet powerful starting place for ongoing transformation and a direct pathway into deeper coaching and leadership programs. For those seeking continued support, Shaman Tai Ma LLC also offers one-on-one coaching, organizational consulting, and the Level Up Mastermind for long-term growth and alignment. |
Meet the coachTai Ma is a certified mindset and coherence coach, founder of Shaman Tai Ma LLC, and creator of the Stop. Drop. Create Coherence™ method — a trauma-informed framework that helps individuals and organizations regulate stress, expand capacity, and lead with clarity. With certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Coaching, Reiki, and Life Purpose Coaching, Tai blends science-based and somatic practices to guide clients from survival mode to sustainable empowerment. ArchivesCategories
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